From the very beginning of the human race, boy meets girl has propagated the species. The problem is that many times the boy isn't hearing NO from the girl. The boy forces himself onto the girl (or other boy, or girl with girl, or gender fluid with gender fluid) and commits a criminal assault or even rape. The #MeToo movement has made massive strides enlightening the masses when boy meets person of interest. People are woke. But are accusations always accurate? Most of the time yes. Every individual has unique boundaries which makes modern mating a minefield. Read about Aziz Ansari's September 2017 date and the subsequent fallout from his inability to recognize NO. Avowed feminist Ansari could claim #MeTooSoon but